Heard of the "Indian giver"? It means giving something and then suddenly taking it away. Do the same to girls. Give her attention and then be cold again. You can try this anywhere. Talk to a girl and engage in good chat, then walk away and talk to her friends. The girl feels a little confused and then will work to get your attention. This can work in a bar, a club, on the beach, in school and whatever places. The idea is to make yourself look good but not needy. Your mindset should be that you are not giving the girl all your attention.
The next thing is attitude. If you don't have it, fake it. Pretend that you already have a lot of girls in your life. That attitude will show on your face, the way you talk, your posture and how you walk and act. Girls really hate people who look needy or desperate. You would then separate yourself from the "losers" by looking confident about yourself. Act it and soon they will believe it! Soon that will become a reality in your life.
A relationship "investment" should have the same principles as a financial investment: "Don't put all your eggs in one basket". In this case, don't put all your hope, desires and fear on just on one woman. This is to stop you longing for an outcome and make you less anxious. This again makes you a confident guy and you would have put yourself in a special level in their hearts.
A lot of men have the common misconception that they must have rock star-like looks and a great personality in order to attract girls. To a lot of women, except those who are very young, looks are not the most important to look for, stop brooding over them. Some personality traits however, will attract girls and it is good to know what they are.
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