Thursday, 29 January 2009

Best Way To Get Girls

A way to talk to a girl on the phone is to make her laugh. Girls love a guy who makes them laugh. This is because it makes them feel comfortable and gives them a chance to feel comfortable in talking to you. If you have had a bad tiring day then usually the girl can pick this up and she get the impression she is "boring you". So make sure you feel confident and your attention span is 100% focused on her. Moreover, if you give her attention she is most likely to return the favour.

The best way to talk to a girl on the phone is to ask her lots of open questions. For example, asking her questions such as "what are your plans for the weekend" or "are you seeing someone right now?" will help the conversation flow smoothly. Make sure you answer her questions truthfully and avoid lying to her as girls can easily pick this up.

One of the main fears many guys have is how to talk to a girl on the phone without being nervous. There are several ways to do this without being nervous and generally if you follow these tips correctly you will not have any trouble when talking to any female or girl on the phone. This article explores several tips you can use when talking to a girl on the phone.

If you are going to talk to a girl for the first time make sure you are confident. The introduction part is always important so make sure you either introduce yourself again if you have not done so or ask her how she is. If you ask a girl how she is it makes her feel much confident and gives her an opportunity to answer your question without hesitating. Once you have introduced yourself and asked her basic questions you should consider asking her what she does and whether she enjoys what she is doing. Always be sympathetic towards her. For example, if she says something like "I'm really tired and stressed because of work" make sure you can offer her some form of support by saying "Don't worry, I hope everything works out".

Pick Up a Girl

1. Buy her a drink. This is one of the oldest methods to begin a conversation with a woman and it still works today. Remember that this doesn't have to be in a bar. You can buy a woman a drink in a restaurant, a café, or any place that serves drinks.

6. Introduce yourself. If you cannot think of something creative to say and you still want to talk to her then just introduce yourself. You don't always have to have something creative to say or do in order to talk to a woman. Just say hi and see if she will talk to you, you might be surprised.

1. Ask an opinion. A good way to begin a conversation with a girl you would like to talk to is to ask her opinion about something. Women like to know that someone cares about what they think and that their opinion matters. This is a great way to start a conversation.

3. Compliment her. If you want to chat up a girl then compliment her. Women love to hear compliments and positive things about their appearance. Tell her you love her hair, her skirt, or a purse that compliments her. This can lead to you asking her where she got it and so on.

5. Ask her to dance. Most public places have music playing over speakers. If a good song comes on then ask her to dance. It might sound crazy, silly, or even be a little romantic, but she just might. However, if she doesn't dance with you then she may stick around to talk.

2. Ask for help with something. Women like to know that they are needed and if you ask for their assistance with something you can then move into further conversation. However, be sure the assistance is not hard labor. You might even accidentally drop a few things near her to see if she will stop and help you pick them up.

Wednesday, 28 January 2009

Advice On How To Get a Girl

Be A Better You". Look - the advice to "being yourself" is probably the worst dating advice ever given to me. Listen - if she does not like you for being who you are now, how do you think 'being yourself' will help you getting more attractive to women? It just does not make sense.

Reject Her Outright". You must always have the mindset of getting ready to LEAVE her - this is what men good with women have that other men do not.

The ability to say "no deal" is highly attractive - women naturally are attracted to men who are not needy. Use this to your advantage.

Be Challenging To Her". The fact is that when you talk to a girl, you will be (subconsciously) sized up by her.

She will figure out your 'value' and then react to you according to what your 'value' is. Therefore, you must come across as high value, and the easiest way to do this is to become a challenge to her.

Attract A Relationship

Heard of the "Indian giver"? It means giving something and then suddenly taking it away. Do the same to girls. Give her attention and then be cold again. You can try this anywhere. Talk to a girl and engage in good chat, then walk away and talk to her friends. The girl feels a little confused and then will work to get your attention. This can work in a bar, a club, on the beach, in school and whatever places. The idea is to make yourself look good but not needy. Your mindset should be that you are not giving the girl all your attention.

The next thing is attitude. If you don't have it, fake it. Pretend that you already have a lot of girls in your life. That attitude will show on your face, the way you talk, your posture and how you walk and act. Girls really hate people who look needy or desperate. You would then separate yourself from the "losers" by looking confident about yourself. Act it and soon they will believe it! Soon that will become a reality in your life.

A relationship "investment" should have the same principles as a financial investment: "Don't put all your eggs in one basket". In this case, don't put all your hope, desires and fear on just on one woman. This is to stop you longing for an outcome and make you less anxious. This again makes you a confident guy and you would have put yourself in a special level in their hearts.

A lot of men have the common misconception that they must have rock star-like looks and a great personality in order to attract girls. To a lot of women, except those who are very young, looks are not the most important to look for, stop brooding over them. Some personality traits however, will attract girls and it is good to know what they are.

Tuesday, 27 January 2009

Get a Woman

When it comes to the matter of being effective with women, effective communication has always been the key. Everything starts with talking with women and only then, your relationship goes further. So, all guys want to know as to how to make women talk to them.

Effective communication is a vital part of your personality and without which women will ignore you like an outdated commodity. So, you will always be longing for one knowing that you probably won't ever have anyone.

So what to do? We just can't keep our head down after consecutive failures. Ok, I will share with you three keys that I believe will make women talk to you.

First thing is- always have a good opener. You must have a good opening line so that you can instantly catch her attention and get her talking to you. It is well said that 'first impression is last impression', the same applies here as well.

Secondly, ask her question regarding herself. This is a sure-shot way to have the conversation flowing. And guys; do not inquire at length about her parents, or lovely pets. Also, in this way you will also know a lot about her and at the same time will let her know that you are showing interest in her. This is something that women like a lot.

Thirdly, make her laugh her lot, not forcibly make her laugh on pathetic jokes. Honestly, this is one skill that one needs to master if he wants women to talk to him with lots of interest.

And please, do not learn jokes and one-liners and spell it consistently in front of her. After all you don't want women to get away from you. So, mix some humorous sentences between conversations to make it worth remembering.

Monday, 26 January 2009

Girls

This is the review of one of the better guide for dating women... Guy Gets Girl by Tiffany Taylor. First of all, who is Tiffany Taylor? I'll tell you who she is NOT... she isn't that famous (or infamous) porn actress that goes by the same name. If porn is what you are interested in, you are in the wrong place and you will always be alone at night. If you are interested in sharing the evening with an attractive woman that is absolutely into you... then keep on reading.

However, Tiffany Taylor IS hot! And she is extremely attractive... and she spills the beans on women in her ultimate guide for dating other hot women like her. Now, why would you want a book written by a woman? Well, obviously you do because she has "insider" knowledge about what it takes to get a woman like her to count the spots on your bedroom ceiling.

And yeah... she gets angry emails from women trying to get her book banned because they don't want guys to have the sexual choice...

But too bad!

For several reasons... #1 society has placed the responsibility of the man to ask the woman out for a date... to be in charge. And many guys cannot do it because quite frankly, nobody told them how to do it... and #2 women don't have any respect for men who are cowards or with low self esteem.

And this is where having the knowledge of what turns a woman on and what turns her off comes into play. You see, if you knew exactly how women are biologically hardwired to be attracted to a certain kind of male... you my friend, would have the keys to the kingdom... of gorgeous females!

Sounds good? Let me spell it out differently, if you know how to give a woman what she wants... a confident man that understands her emotionally... she will fulfill your sexual fantasies!

And this is where Tiffany Taylor's book comes into play. She will give you simple step-by-steps how to meet and seduce a woman of your dreams. And yes, she does have something to say about how a man looks, how much money he has, and whether he is famous...

Sunday, 25 January 2009

Women & Dating

Get funny-

Humor is one thing which would not only get you but get her talking as well at the same time. The reason why we go blank when trying to talk about something is simply due to the fact that we have not completely opened up yet and the best possible way to open up is to make her laugh.

Start asking questions-

This is the best possible way to deal with a conversation block. When you feel that there is nothing much to talk about always ask a question and let her answer. A question can be anything relating to the girl you are talking to or her life. You see when she is in the midst of answering you; you will always find one or two topics on which you can have a real long conversation.

Never reveal too much about yourself too early-

This is a situation which most men create without even realizing that they are digging a deep hole for themselves. You see when you tell way too much about yourself very early to a female there is absolutely nothing left to talk about as you have already told her whatever was there to be said. You see therefore the key under this situation is not to tell everything about yourself too early and reveal one thing at a time.

Saturday, 24 January 2009

Dating Adice

Be Calm and Confident.

The more nervous you are, the more prone you are to stutter and make mistakes when talking. You'll also have a very tough time coming up with anything interesting to say when you're anxious. So take it easy and be yourself. Women may notice if you're just "acting" out to impress her, and this might even turn her off.

Develop Your Sense of Humor.

Among all the strategies on how to talk to girls, having a good sense of humor is probably the most effective.

Here are some great tips to improve your sense of humor:

If you've accidentally done something ridiculous or embarrassing, turn that situation into a joke. Learning to accept your own mistakes is a plus factor for women.

Watch comedy movies and shows to know how to deliver humor at the right time. Then tell the joke to your friends and ask them to honestly rank how funny (or not funny) you are. Tell them that your dating or social life depends on their honesty. If they don't think you're funny enough, practice until you get it right.

Each girl has her own diverse personality. Tell jokes that fit her qualities. Don't tell jokes that might offend her in any way. Be careful with sensitive issues such as religion, politics, beliefs, etc. Telling jokes about a certain politician or actor might turn out disastrous if she's a loyal fan of them.

Stay informed of current news and the latest jokes. You don't want to tell her a joke that she has heard many times before. Knowing what not to talk about is as important as knowing how to talk to girls.

If she also shows her humorous side, observe her style. Then weave your own style into hers. Be subtle; don't be too obvious that she notices you copying her approach.

Your body language is equally important in delivering your joke. Use the right facial expression and gestures.

If she's genuinely laughing, and sometimes holding or shoving you in a teasing manner, that means she's very much into you.

Ask The "Right" Questions.

Ask questions that will encourage her to talk further and flaunt her ability or experiences. Don't ask questions that lead to a dead-end answer such as "yes" or "no", or questions that delve deeply into her private life (especially when you've just met). Moreover, don't ask silly questions for the sake of having something to say.

Friday, 23 January 2009

Tips On How To Get Girls

1) Remember that its not 'what you say', its 'how you say it'. Keeping humor in everything you talk about makes a big difference on the flirt factor. This rings true whether you are chatting online or talking in person. Every girl loves to smile, and if you can find that button of humor that will make her smile, you'll get mass brownie points.

This goes especially double if she tries to downsize anything about herself. Try to turn into a lighter subject, just remember not to make fun of her!

It is also good to remember that although corny can be cute, you don't want her to think you are just some joker trying to get into her pants. She will turn off the flirt light and red flag you as a joke right away if you do that.

It is ok to make jokes and have fun, you want to do that, just don't take it too far.

Flirting with girls is not to hard, you just have to remember to be confident, and don't fret too much about a few rejections. It happens, and believe me, there are more than enough fish in the sea for you to try again.

Guy's if you are serious about getting the girl of your dreams then you need to seriously work on solid techniques to achieve your goal. If you know what a girl is thinking it is far easier to approach her.

2) Remember to keep things positive. No girl wants to flirt or talk to a guy who is downsizing himself or anything else for that matter. Try to stick to subjects you like and feel good about.

If school or work is stressful, don't talk about them when your first flirt with a girl. Stay away from other touchy subjects as well, such as; Politics, Religion, talks of marriage, money, or ex girlfriends. They are all subjects guaranteed to get you into muddy waters and ruin that nice little conversation you have going.